Right, I'm in a bit of a muddle in a decision over one of my friends.
I've known her for years and have always classed each other as 'best friends'. I would do anything for her if it came down to it but more recently I've started to think I'm wasting my time.
She's the kind of person you know everything about and can tell everything to but it could be months in between talking and meeting but when we do see each other its like we've never been apart.
A couple of years back I got fed up with me being the person making all the effort and just stopped talking to her. We eventually got back into talking and it just carried on as before.
She's the kind of person who I'll arrange to see and then she'll let me down, forget or just end up being crazy late. This has bothered me before but I've always let it go as I know what she's like (a very 'typical' dim blonde).
A couple of months back she agreed to do the flowers and cake for another of my friends wedding in November. She knows the girl as well but they were never more than someone you say hello to and not alot else. We had arranged a day when we're all three meet up together to talk about designs and ideas and such, it was actually her suggestion as to when and where. It comes to the day and neither of us hear back from a call or text.
Now I can take being let down myself again and again, but when you let one of my other friends down as well I just decided I'd had enough and again I've made no effort to get back in contact with her again.
She messages me via facebook now and again to say how you doing and today its actually her birthday and I get a message basically saying I've forgotten and am I still alive.
I helped this girl with support while her husband was very bad to her and giving her strength to leave him in the end. She's dated a couple of people since and then got with a new guy the last time I saw her and they seem to be very happy together, she just ends up dropping her mates whenever she finds a new man.
Basically, what would you do? Give up on her, give her another chance or something else?
Any idea's appreciated. (sorry for the waffling!)